This is a delayed post since Valentine’s week I was extremely busy. I still want to post something about love and a little advice or opinion. Not sure which one yet.
I’ve learned more this past year about being in love than I ever have in my entire life. The first year of a relationship is great but the second year is really where I believe you learn to love unconditionally. There’s more openness and being truthful and honest about the way we feel. I fall more and more in love with my boyfriend everyday and I honestly believe I am more in love with him now than when we first started dating.
I honestly do not like coming on here and talking about my personal life. I try to keep to myself as much as possible. It’s not necessary to tell the whole world about my relationship or what happens day to day in my life, but it’s essential to my point.
The first year of my relationship, we never fought and if we did they were small things that were over in a second. This year was different. We got in bigger fights, sometimes I was sure he would dump me but thankfully, he didn’t. These fights allowed me at least to try to see things from his side. I hate being selfish but sometimes I think I’m being wronged and truly I am just delusional and selfish. It’s a fault of mine that I intend to work on. By telling you this I hope you understand that when you are in a fight (because it will happen) try to think about things from your partners perspective, stop being the victim. Try to look for a way to fix things.
There is nothing more inspirational than love. It will truly make you think irrationally. Just remember that the world doesn’t revolve around you and neither does a relationship. The two biggest things that kill love are selfishness and jealousy.
I also wanted to share a little bit of poetry that I was working on before Valentine’s Day.
I love you my sweet/ if only life was easy/ I would say it more
Roses, wine and good times/ always with you/ everything is new
You make my world stop/ you make it all go away/ you make me happy
The heavens stand still/ empty hearts are now filled/ my heart skips a beat
Thank you for reading my post and my poetry. Happy very late Valentine’s Day. Please look around my site more and follow to be updated when I post new content.