In light of Valentine’s Day (which is very soon) I figured I would share a little about my relationship and why it works so well. Hopefully someone will take away something to apply to their relationship so that it can thrive. Even though my boyfriend (Christian) and I have been dating for only 7 (almost 8) months. I like to think that our relationship is very strong and nothing could break us apart. I’ll save the story of how we met for another post.
It makes me sad to see other people in bad relationships or struggling to keep the spark they have alive in their love life. I would really like to shed some light the best I can so everyone can have the best relationship they can.
Why does our relationship work so well?
Well I asked him and he told me that it is “because we are both very chill and we like the same things. Even though we don’t get to see each other everyday we still trust and love each other and it makes the days we do see each other even more perfect and enjoyable. We’re just open with each other and are willing to listen without judging. We listen to each other and try to see the others perspective. ”
I agree with him 100% of course. Relationships are about trusting each other and doing whatever you can to make it work. Christian and I are very honest with each other because neither of us are judgmental and we love listening to each others ideas and thoughts. We have so much trust in each other and in our relationship. We are there for each other and love each other.
Why do most relationships not work well?
I think it’s because a lot of people aren’t in it for the long run. Let’s face it, we live in a hookup culture and that is why so many relationships fail. Too many people take these things too casually.
Another reason is because there are a lot of people who might be in a relationship just to say they have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Basically, they’re desperate. I hate to say it but that’s the truth. If you are with someone just for this reason neither of you will be happy and the bond is likely to fail. Please don’t force the relationship. If you’re not in love don’t lead them on and tell them you are continuing an unloving relationship. That’s just cruel to yourself and the other person involved.
A third reason is that some people can’t stand it when they don’t get their way and the have to argue about every little thing. Some people are just stubborn and won’t try to see the others side because they are selfish. Being in a relationship you need to learn to let the little things go and try to see things from others perspective. It’s called being a decent and caring person. If it’s gonna hurt your relationship is it worth arguing over?
The final reason I will talk about is trust. I hear about all these crazy girls that don’t trust their bf and are constantly checking his phone, his location on snapchat and whose pictures he is liking and I just see a lack of trust. I trust that my man would never talk to other girls in the same way he talks to me because I trust and know that he adores me and that he will be faithful in our relationship just as I will be.
Relationships are not something to take lightly or casually as many people do. And don’t try to copy other people’s relationships. What might work for other people might not work for you. Just be true to your heart, be loving, trusting, and spend time growing your relationship and fall in love them everyday. Over and over again.
Thank you so much for reading my post I hope everyone has a beautiful Valentine’s Day!
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