“Your Mentality is Your Reality”

Mentality (3).JPGI have seen so many people get hurt by themselves. There are individuals out there that feel sorry for themselves and are all “woe is me” all the time when their life really isn’t that bad at all. I don’t think they understand that we can control our emotions (to a certain degree). Part of what makes people so strong and so great is that even when we have a bad day we can know that better days are coming. Bad things happen to good people and you can’t let that stuff get you down and ruin your whole life. We need to learn to rise above all the little problems we have and come out stronger.Mentality (2)

Another reason we, as a society and as human beings, need to work on being positive and spreading all these positive vibes is that the vibes we give off really are contagious. Now I won’t lie, there are people I’ve met that are too happy and it’s annoying. You should be genuinely happy, fake happy is obvious, annoying and….well, fake. Be genuine and true, but don’t be negative and drain people of their happiness. You need to surround yourself with people who reflect what you want your future to look like. Mentality

I know that I am get so worked up when I see my friends do this to themselves. They play the “feel sorry for me” game and post about how much their life sucks on social media and such. By posting about it and dwelling on it, and the attention stemming from it,  you aren’t making it any better. If you’re not trying to fix the problem…….What are you even doing? Why are you complaining so much instead of fixing your problems? I don’t know about you, but I don’t want people to think negatively about me. Only positive vibes on the internet and social media please! Mentality (4)

Always be thinking about enjoying yourself now and making a life you will want for yourself in the future.

BTW the quote in my title is credited to Mod Sun.

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5 thoughts on ““Your Mentality is Your Reality”

  1. I really like the idea behind this post and I think as a society we need to be more positive and stop complaining and not doing. However I think you have to be careful because mental health is such a complicated topic and one solution is not the fix. xx

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  2. I totally agree! We all have our own story but we have to stay positive and find our happiness from within. Also, you need to watch what you put around you such as friends and social media. This also affects your state of mind. If you’re around negativity, you will eventually become negative….same as being positive.

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